Thursday, October 18, 2012

Advice on Fasting?


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Advice on Fasting?
This is my first time fasting and I start tomorrow. Please share your tips and useful advice. Thank you.


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Dont do it if your motivation is weight loss...brbrYou put your body into starvation mode, and it will then store even more fat when you do resume eating just ask Oprah!!



A dumb qestion about tampons.?


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A dumb qestion about tampons.?
This is probably a really stupid question. But can you be a virgin and still use tampons?


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NOT a dumb question, seems like a perfectly honest query.brbrA virgin is someone, male or female, who hasnt had intercourse. There are a number of perfectly respectable nuns who use tampons for menstrual containment.brbrI prefer tampons overall because of convenience, but they can be less comfortable in the last day or so of the menstrual cycle. Used pads for a while when toxic shock syndrome first hit the news, but the risk of this is minimal with frequent changes.



ADULTS ONLY I just told my boyfriend about my?


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ADULTS ONLY I just told my boyfriend about my?
Ok when I was like Im now, I shaved for the first time and everything seemed fine until the second time when I started getting lumps in more or less the same spots in my groin and thigh area. Now they recur atleast once a month!!! I know its not stds cause I tested negative already and an aunt who is a doctor told me its follicitus..basically ingrownsIm always hesitant to talk to the doctor about it whenever I go cause I find it embrassing but I have an appt this week so Ill tell them to help cure the ingrowns. Anyway so today my boyfriend tried to go down on me and I kept making excuses which frustrated him cause I guess my excuses werent credible enough so I just told him. Now Im worried because weve only been together about a month now. I explained basically what I just wrote here and it was awkward for a bit but he seems fine. Should I be worried about quotusquot??


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Well I guess that this is where you will find out if he is the right one for you and if he is worth all the worring that you are doing.



A doctor told me Im a schizophrenic psychotic with a psychopathic personality disorder...Is that a bad thing?


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A doctor told me Im a schizophrenic psychotic with a psychopathic personality disorder...Is that a bad thing?


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Most of us are guilt ridden wimps. You are very very special.brbrBeing a schizophrenic means that you will never be alone. Your psychotic disorder should give you lots of energy. Being psychopathic means that you will never feel sorry for anything youve done.brbrYou sound like the perfect rave animal. Have a blast and just stay away from me.



ADHD how do you cope? How do I treat it?


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ADHD how do you cope? How do I treat it?
Cant sit still or hold a thought for a ucking second! How do I go about making an appointment with a psychiatrist to get a prescription for adderall?! Help me before I go insane!


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In an emergency, diall . You will be seen right away.brbrIf you can wait, just go to the nearest mental health clinic or make an appointment to see your primary care physician and discuss this with himher. A PCP may need to refer you to a psychiatrist before a prescription is written. If you feel you need it immediately, then go to the ER or Urgent Care now.brbrI hope you feel better soon. Remember, it takes a few weeks to get the full benefit of the medicine so be patient with it and with your self.brbrBest wishes.



Addiction to pornography, help?


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Addiction to pornography, help?
My boyfriend has an addiction to porn and weve been trying to get past this part in our relationship but it constantly comes back, and this is ruining our physical part, how can I help him get over it?


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If hes truly addicted meaning that its a destructive force in his life than he has to stop cold turkey. He cant use it, cause its just too much for him to handle. Im not antiporn, but just like an alcoholic cant have just one drink, watching porn will just keep that element alive.brbrI just heard a podcast by Dan Savage relationship advice guy, and he was asked the same question. He said you just gotta quit cold turkey. There have been times in my life when I was consuming too much porn, and I made myself stop. Living with a girlfriend helps, cause the opportunity to do it is much less its much harder to quit when you live alone. As he stops looking at it, his interest in it will go down. As masturbation without porn and sex with you become his only sexual outlets, hell come to find those completely adequate.brbrHowever, if youre just making a big deal out of it cause youre not porn friendly and he is, and he really doesnt have a problem, then it might take a toll on the relationship if you make him conform to your values. You will probably find that he quotcheatedquot by looking at porn, and it will set up a bad pattern where he has to hide from you. This doesnt seem to be the case, cause you seem compassionate and not overbearing with your desire for him to stop.brbrIf its draining him of all desire then its definitely not good. However, porn doesnt take the place of intimacy in a guys mind, just like your vibrator doesnt take the place of your bfs body. Porn has a magical quality of just lighting up a place in a guys brain that turns him on its hard to describe, and Im not sure if there is a female analogue to it. What Im trying to say is, even if he cant stop right away, it doesnt have to be between you and the porn youre not in competition withh the porn. brbrIf you need any more advice, feel free to email me sorrenngmail.com



Addicted to porn?


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Addicted to porn?
I am only a year old boy. Is this bad. How can I fix this without having to go to my parents?


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Well it depends on just how much porn you watch to call it an addiction .....brbrFirst off we all know it is illegal for persons under years of age to view porn ..... BUT we also know that MOST males from about years of age ..and older ... DO watch and View porn ......brbrIf you need to slow down or stop then get a hobby like collecting coins, stamps, model cars, sports cards etc .... to keep you busy and you wont have time to watch much porn ....